Misery takes work also...

   We all know that misery does enjoy company, but do you know whose company it enjoys the most? YOURS!! It always delves deep inside of us first in an attempt to break our will and drive and motivation...it seems to love to see us lost. But bear in mind that, odd as it sounds, it takes work to be miserable and it takes work to be happy so why not focus your fight on defeating misery and winning the fight for happiness...it is far more rewarding.
     Misery can only happen if we allow it to consume us and invite others to be miserable with us. I have never understood why people wish to have a crew following them down a moment of misery when that crew would rather be on your road of joy. Do not let misery take over your company; consider yourself far more deserving than that. Happiness is indeed hard work and sometimes we have to make our own joy. People do not even realize, however, how much energy and time they just toss away while sitting in that fallen house of cards. It's true, misery will keep you struggling constantly and that struggle takes work also...

Pam's daily thoughts...